o.my. ^^^

o.well. here goes.
.. The other forums I am on don't allow that,
Could this be an answer?
Not in this instance, alone, when members describe the far superior worlds they inhabit elsewhere (even everywhere else) one wonders why significant time is devoted here, in this lesser place?? (These sorts of complaints typically come from frequent posters.)
“To visit or not to visit” .. is free choice.
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i know of someone who moved into a dicey neighborhood a few years ago. not a religious person. not a missionary.
location was obviously a challenge from the start. no trickery.
she devoted significant time in criticizing neighbors, the neighboring area. she got herself elected president of the HOA. she called police to report suspected illegal activities regularly. maybe daily. she called authorities about neglected properties, abandoned cars, tasteless house paint colors, etc. (i believe her impact was minimal.) i don’t believe she improved anything.
she moved to a place she hated, then proceeded to insist everyone meet her standards.
by force, if necessary, if possible.
thankfully, she has now sold her home and has moved to another, less offensive location. (not perfect!) she still finds room to criticize. it’s no longer a full time job. for her sake, i hope she’s able to adjust. to find more constructive use of her time. even if it’s just relaxing, letting others be.
i pray for her.