R7ehr wrote: ↑Sun Aug 03, 2025 5:14 pm
Ken wrote: ↑Sun Aug 03, 2025 4:59 pm
R7ehr wrote: ↑Sun Aug 03, 2025 4:09 pm
How can we “celebrate diversity” while simultaneously denying that diversity exists? Why do we laud the high points of any given culture, while denying that the low points are real? This is liberal head in sand behavior, the same as conservatives denying that discrimination has long term effects.
What specifically are you referring to? What are these low points that people are denying?
For example, men commit about 90% of all violent crime in this country and more than 90% of sex crimes. Is that a low point that we should be talking about? That is a vastly larger disparity than anything to do with race or ethnicity.
Last I checked, “men” are not a culture. But I may be a whisker behind on the most recent permutations of gender matters.
Specifically, I am thinking of education as it relates to white/asian/black culture in America. And comparing how liberals adamantly refuse to consider that black culture treats education differently than Asians. But when it comes to music and fashion for example, liberals seem to have no problem highlighting the black contributions in these fields, and holding these up as evidence of diversity being a good thing.
Does this help in understanding my previous post?
I've taught in a conservative school district in Texas, and several in Washington that are middle of the road. In every school and district, teachers and administrators laser focused on the cultural issues that hamstring educational achievement. Not just Black culture (although that gets discussed) but also Hispanic culture, Poor/Blue collar culture, and most recently Pacific Islander culture. I haven't seen one school that wasn't desperately trying to get parents more engaged in their children's education. From reading to your kids and helping with homework when they are little, to making sure they get to school on time and attend school at the HS level.
The biggest factor BY FAR is economic not race or ethnicity. At the wealthiest school I work in it is often standing room only at Football and basketball games and other events, school carnivals, PTAs, etc. are hugely attended. School board meetings are often standing room only. Parent open houses are hugely attended. And the schools are full of parent volunteers, especially the elementary schools. At the poorest school where I teach the kids play to empty stadiums and arenas which just a few parents and students attending. Barely anyone shows for open house. And they struggle to get any parent engagement. There are some stand-out parents who are super-volunteers, but they are the exception. The racial demographics are not all that different. Both are majority White schools but the wealthy one has lots more Asian-American students where the poor one has more Hispanic students but also lots of more recent Asian-American students as well. There aren't many Blacks around here one way or the other.
In my almost 20 years of teaching by FAR the most engaged parents I have ever encountered were professional Black moms back in Texas. These are women who are often retired army officers working in corporate or professional jobs (Fort Hood was next door) or otherwise high achieving professional women. They would show up during open house first week of school with their business cards and say "so and so is my son (or daughter). If you have any issues at all with my child academically or in terms of discipline, PLEASE PLEASE contact me first and give us a chance to deal with it before you put them into the school disciplinary system. At school events they would always seek me out to say hi and ask how their child was doing. Just super engaged in a supportive way. It was frankly awesome because if I was having trouble with any of their kids all I needed to do was write a draft email home explaining what difficulty I was having, call the student up to my desk to show them the draft email, and say "If you don't shape up this email goes out to your mom at the end of the period". They would be on their best behavior for the rest of the week for fear of mom's wrath.
So stereotypes are just that. Stereotypes. Even if they hold true generally there are always plenty of exceptions.
Engagement from White parents is often more helicopter-ish so constant emails asking why their child is missing an assignment or got a C instead of an A on some test. Along with pressure to inflate their grades or cut them slack. "The reason why your child has a missing assignment is because they didn't turn it in. Ask THEM why it is missing".