I'm currently trying to hire a 30 year old school teacher whose 70 year old parents would not permit her to teach school for us because we are too liberal or worldly.Ms. Izzie wrote:Ms. Izzie wrote:What do you think of this statement?Tightly knit communities in which members look to one another for identity, and to establish meaning and value, are disabled and often dangerous, however polished their veneer. -Marilynne RobinsonDo you care to elaborate?Ernie wrote:I think I have seen this first hand in many Anabaptist communities.
Another 30 year single meets with my wife regularly for prayer. She wants to join our church but her 65 year old parents will not permit her to do so because we are not conservative enough.
Both ladies are of age and can do what they like, but they don't want to deal with the ire of their parents and relatives.
(I can identify with this as I went through the same thing at 30 years old.)
For these ladies and their parents, the issue is not about whether Christian women should cover their heads, or even how much to cover their heads, but on whether churches should require the traditional kapp or allow a hanging veil.
Tonight the brothers at our church had a long discussion on whether it is important to have an identifying label other than "Anabaptist Christian". When people ask our senior brother what church he is part of, he feels at a loss because the only thing he can say is something generic like "Anabaptist" or "Christian". He feels at sea if he can't say Beachy, or conservative Brethren, or Amish-Mennonite, or something more than just "Anabaptist". His wife suggested that perhaps we could call ourselves "Kingdom Pilgrims". Then we would have a label. The need for identity is strong!
Another senior brother said he does not know of any unaffiliated Anabaptist mission churches that stayed conservative so he thinks we should become "affiliated".
I was chairing a monthly meeting earlier today of about 25 Anabaptist men (probably one of the most diverse conservative Anabaptists teams there are). Toward the end of the conversation one brother said, "I would like to caution against replacement theology. We are not Jews. We should view Jews as our siblings. I know the Bible says... but...."
These are just five things that I was involved in today. I could cite more examples from today.
I've been a participant in these kinds of things now for about 10,950 days. For the 5840 days before this, I was immersed in this and absorbed much of this by osmosis. It took me at least 5840 days after the first 5840 days to sort out the wheat from the chaff. Since then I continue to do finer screening and try to help others to do the same as I have opportunity.