mike wrote: ↑Wed Sep 16, 2026 2:20 pm
The Holdeman men I see on a regular basis wear T-shirts and jeans and are basically indistinguishable from many worldly men.
Holdemans have never had a particularly "special" dress code, and men and women both used to be indistinguishable from their neighbours. As time went on, Holdemans have gradually had a dress code for men, namely no shorts and nowadays no athletic pants, so they're quite easy to distinguish in the summer (and likewise you can distinguish from Beachys, etc. by identifying who has on athletic pants and who is in blue jeans.)
Not that I think one or the other is particularly more godly than the other.
The Holdeman ladies and girls wear very short (knee-length at best)
At best? I haven't observed anything above the knee at Shippensburg, Mifflinburg/McVeytown, Fleetwood, or here in Ohio, and I'm not sure where else you would be seeing Holdemans in your area. Maybe all the most worldly ones congregate where you are, though.
and very tight, form-fitting dresses
I have observed the opposite: things are less tight than they used to be, and whilst that is mostly because of changing fashions, it's a change I would welcome.
and very small black kapp-style coverings.
I'm not sure what the definition of "very small" is. Holdemans didn't wear coverings in public at all 70 years ago. Note that at church on Sunday, they wear a much larger covering than most other plain Anabaptist groups would wear.
I don't take seriously critiques from Holdemans about the plain dress in other conservative Mennonite groups.
I'm not sure why my own affiliation or my own church practices should have anything to do with observations about transitionalism in other church settings. If Holdemans are having problems with immodest attire, worldly attire, transitionalism, etc., then that doesn't exactly make it a good thing for other people to do it, and it certainly doesn't mean it's a problem for me to observe it.
Overall, Holdemans have transitioned (so to speak) from indistinguishable attire compared to their neighbours to gradually become more separated in terms of appearance, such as adopting coverings outside of church and not adopting worldly dress styles, like was more common in the 50s and 60s. My mother in law's wedding dress would generally not be the kind of thing most Holdeman women would wear inside church or outside of it these days, but back then it was common. As I understand it, Holdemans diverged from worldly clothing sometime in the 1960s.
That said, I have a real problem with the inconsistency of dress expectations in my church and some similar ones. For example, men are expected to wear buttoned dress shirts in church with the collar buttoned up, and plain coats in the winter time if you want to wear a coat or jacket; while during the week in our fields and shops and places of business our men can wear T-shirts or can have two or more buttons open. All while claiming to promote the concept of separation from the world in dress, and asking our ladies to wear traditional kapp-style head coverings and cape dresses. I have a real issue with this sort of inconsistency.
I certainly don't agree with women adopting essential plain attire (cape dresses, kapp style coverings, and so forth) but men not doing something as simple as donning broadfalls and suspenders. However the suggestion to a typical conservative Anabaptist (particularly one with an Amish background) to wear distinctive broadfalls - you might as well ask him to abandon his car and get a horse and cart. One such person wrote into the Vanguard expressing how they considered no longer wearing broadfalls to be the sign of a person who has had a born-again salvation experience, which I found a bit absurd.