I'm pretty sure I will never be a plain Mennonite, and I'm pretty sure plain Mennonites think differently than I do.Soloist wrote: ↑Sat Jan 10, 2026 12:29 pmPosition 1: Modesty was important back then and now.Bootstrap wrote: ↑Sat Jan 10, 2026 12:08 pm Wrong? I didn't say it was wrong. I said it signals a specific identity - both to others and to the women themselves.
And that is not the same thing as simplicity and avoiding show. In fact, it might be cheaper and easier to buy clothes at Walmart, and wearing clothes that signal identity also means standing out to others. So I think they are doing this partly for reasons that are different from the reasons the early Anabaptists made their choices about clothing.
Position 2: Modesty back then was characterized by simplicity
Position 3: clothing styles back then were more universally acceptable for covering the body.
Position 4: Modesty now is to conceal the body as well as simplicity.
Position 5: Walmart sells what is popular
Position 6: popular is not really modest.
Following these positions, it makes logical sense that if society dressed modestly, then the point of plain clothing would be characterized by simplicity. As that is not true, the implication is that modesty is not generally sold at Walmart.
As long as you accept jeans as modest, there won't be similar thinking between conservatives and you. My wife would never wear jeans for example as both of us view them as immodest.
For one thing, I think that modesty is relative to a given culture, what is considered normal and modest in that culture may be very different from what is considered normal and modest in another culture. I don't think the Bible gives us absolutes here. And I assume that you feel it's quite clear that jeans are not modest, no matter how our culture feels about them in general.
But I also think you can buy a wide variety of clothing, for most definitions of modest, and much of that is available in Kohl's or Walmart or whatever. Other things are available online. Let me be clear: I am not at all against sewing your own clothes, and I think a given church can make decisions about how they want to dress, I am not saying you are wrong to do any of this.
But I also think that the things that distinguish us are not the things the early Anabaptists were most concerned with.