mike wrote: ↑Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:02 am
Ernie wrote: ↑Wed Nov 19, 2025 5:54 pmI've been part of and known churches who didn't really have men who met the scriptural qualifications for deacons and elders. But they believed in having ordinations. "Were big boys and big boys have ordinations." So they go ahead and have ordinations, but the churches struggle and struggle. This kinds of churches happen whenever people get the idea that "we are all priests unto God and we all have the Spirit" so anyone can start churches. You won't find this ideology in churches that are careful about sound doctrine, who vet people for influential positions, and who believe that authority is both earned and affirmed by the Lord and the church.
With your experience in church planting, I'm quite interested in what you say here, and I have a lot of questions.
I'll share my thoughts but they are just that. I don't proposed to be an authority on these matters.
I've interacted with about 25 new church planting teams the last ten years, and the results have been quite dismal for most.
mike wrote: ↑Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:02 am
1. How does it come about that a church literally has no one with the scriptural qualifications for leaders?
There are character qualifications. And there are age / children qualifications. Mormons ordain elders at age 18. This seems really problematic and unscriptural. Many Mennonites do the same thing. Why ordain a "younger" as an elder?
Elders are supposed to have their children on a good path and the children have a good reputation. You don't really know how this is going until the children are in their older teens, IMO.
Many church plants that are birds of a feather flocking together (independents) have mostly younger people. Many church plants are comprised of people who are running from something, and runners/reactionaries don't seem to meet the scriptural qualifications, IMO.
Also, I keep being astounded at the percentage of missionaries and church planters who are dealing with sexual addictions. It also seems that many independent minded church planters have a lot of relational and interpersonal baggage as well. They don't seem "full off wisdom".
mike wrote: ↑Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:02 am
2. Is it problematic to apply Jesus' words "where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them" to church planting?
Yes, I think the context for that is establishing a quorum of witnesses against a person involved in sin.
mike wrote: ↑Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:02 am
3. Can just anyone start a church; if not, why not?
I think the Lord can only bless a church in which his Spirit is leading the effort. I'm not sure a group of people can claim to be a legitimate church if they are running from whatever God is trying to do in their lives. I think such groups should disband. Go back to wherever they were when they started running away from God, and first learn the lessons he had for them there. At a minimum, they should come under an authority that those they ran away from can bless.
Others believe that any group of people who begin a church have actually formed a church in God's eyes. They think the new church may be a preemie, or a dwarf, or a sickly child, and struggle to survive, but it is still a church.
I agree that there are many preemies, simply because the church was birthed too quickly, but that alone doesn't make it illegitimate. I think it is illegitimate if the Spirit wasn't behind it.
mike wrote: ↑Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:02 am
4. What makes a church legitimate?
If its launch was done according to the direction of the Holy Spirit, I think it is legitimate.
If the new church is in competition with other faithful churches, if its founders are not under authority, if its founders are running from something else, if the founders are criticizing everyone else rather than working in harmony with other churches, if the founders are gaslighting their members, I highly doubt the church was formed under the direction of the Holy Spirit.
mike wrote: ↑Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:02 am
5. Can a church care about sound doctrine, and believe that authority is both earned and affirmed by the Lord and the church still not have anyone who meets the scriptural qualifications for church leadership?
See number 1
Many church planters are visionairies with zeal, but they may not be spiritually prepared to lead a congregation.
mike wrote: ↑Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:02 am
I seem to remember comments from our ministry around recent ordinations that we should not think there is no one qualified in our church, and that numerous persons are. I'm not sure if that came from a fear that teaching the biblical qualifications would create an ideal so high in our minds that we didn't really think anybody fit the bill. But I thought it was interesting regardless.
I interacted with an elder with this persuasion. He didn't think people should consider the qualifications for deacons and elders very much since he knew of people who supposedly had good qualifications but turned out to be really poor leaders. Rather he was inclined to ordain anyone he felt good about at the moment, and this could change rather quickly depending on how much a person agreed with him, and whether the person said good things about him. He would ordain almost anyone that he felt good about.
I find this quite problematic. First, I think the elder confused skills and giftings with qualifications. He knew of highly gifted men who didn't make good leaders. And I agree that many highly gifted men don't make good leaders. But I disagree that highly charactered and scripturally qualified men make poor leaders.
Secondly, because of his persuasion, he had no solid framework for appointing leaders, and he had difficulty accepting the congregation's thoughts about who was qualified.
I've used the following illustration with a church that was preparing for ordination.
Sometimes people refer to a child as an obedient child or as a disobedient child.
The obedient child is not perfectly obedient, yet we call them an obedient child because they always try to be obedient, and they are sorry when they are not obedient.
A disobedient child is not always disobedient, they may have some good traits, but they often disobey.
Yet, there is such a thing as an obedient child and a disobedient child.
Likewise, there is such a thing as a qualified brother and an unqualified brother when it comes to character. This doesn't mean that the qualified brother never falls short of the glory of God, or that the unqualified brother never does anything right. It just means that the qualified brother is blameless and the unqualified one is not yet blameless. All of us should be working towards becoming a blameless person.
In a multigenerational church that is faithfully trying to serve the Lord and in a church that is standing on the shoulders of faithful saints in the past, and in which there are quite a number of men between age 40 and 65, I think there should be a number of qualified persons. However, if the church is drifting, or the men have become spiritually complacent, or if it is simply a church of birds of a feather who have flocked together, there may not be any or many qualified brothers.
In a church plant setting...
I don't think a church should struggle without leadership if there is no one qualified to ordain. Bring in qualified leadership if necessary.
Or, as Allen Roth says, "If you can't ordain for life, then appoint someone for a couple years. If there is noone you can appoint for a couple years, then appoint for a year. If you don't have anyone you know well enough to appoint for a year, appoint for six months. Don't let a church flounder because of a lack of leadership!"
A wee little man can’t say, I’m sorry. A big man owns his mistakes and apologizes.
A wee little man trusts himself and his own discernment. A big man is humble enough to know that he needs the counsel and input of others.