I think "judgement" implies a negative condemnation. Hence "judge not that you be not judged." I would advocate for the spirit of love believes the best, hopes for all things, etc.R7ehr wrote: ↑Mon Oct 06, 2025 1:26 pmI think this is pirouetting around what I’m saying about judging. Judging something as good is still judging, using judgement. I don’t think encouraging, edifying, exhorting, condemning, slandering or loving need to be present at all for judgment to be made. It is possible to leave them altogether separate, or include them.joshuabgood wrote: ↑Mon Oct 06, 2025 11:54 am I don't think encouraging, edifying and exhorting are the same as condemning, slandering, etc. Love believes the best...not the worst. That is why Marpeck could refer to those still in the state churches as his dear brothers. And maybe why Jesus saw the good in the Roman militants. Any person can nitpick, judge, condemn, and make himself feel better. Perhaps a mature person takes another tack.
Any coward can hide from the truth deciding “Oh, I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt, I’ll not challenge anything”.
Lack of judgement doesn’t make one mature or a coward. Using judgement doesn’t either.
I just now was reading through some chapters in Proverbs and happened by chance upon these verses and they of course made me think of this conversation.
“He that saith unto the wicked, Thou art righteous; him shall the people curse, nations shall abhor him: But to them that rebuke him shall be delight, and a good blessing shall come upon them.” Prov 24:24-25
“They that forsake the law praise the wicked: but such as keep the law contend with them. Evil men understand not judgment: but they that seek the LORD understand all things.” Prov 28:4-5
“He that rebuketh a man afterwards shall find more favour than he that flattereth with the tongue.” Prov 28:23
“A man that flattereth his neighbour spreadeth a net for his feet.” Prov 29:5
Personally, I do think that I am on the inclusive side of “who is a Christian” too. My understanding on judging is that it is generally wiser not to shoo people into heaven or out of heaven. Not our job. Particularly with public figures such as Charlie Kirk where we might have opinions, and yet-
1. We don’t know them personally, and
2. there is mixed signals.
That said, I don't think to many people would accuse me of being conflict averse. I think we should unapologetically challenges those that we feel need challenging. But I don't think we need to do so from a place of condemnation. I affirm certain things about Charlie Kirk. Other things, like pronouncing the death penalty on Biden, are appropriately rebuked. Just like I need rebuke from time to time. (One of the dangers of those who would be teachers is that they talk a lot. And when you talk a lot, you are more likely to say things sooner or later that are not ideal. The tongue is dangerous. And when you are recorded a lot, those things remain forever. Somehow, it seems likely to me that, were Charlie able, he would repudiate that what he said about Biden, and also what he said about Michelle O etc.