Also today ..
behind me in line at a grocer, a frantic young mother with 2 young ones, holding a good sized decorated cake, not enough hands!

the line could have been quicker, but not bad .. i had a few things, not a lot.
she was about to leave, i urged her to get in front of me. she did, was appreciative.
the kids were lively, but not bad! smiling and laughing.
i said, “i wish i had your problems!” .. that seemed to help. we chatted, i told her about my epic visit to a grocer with my 2 yr old grdaughter, she was pretty wild, laughing and skipping through the aisles, i must have called her name several times, cause ..
a few days later we returned. as soon as the doors opened, the cashiers greeted her, called out her name!
i don’t think we had anymore visits to match the first.
but she loved skipping in grocery aisles for years later. her mother was so impatient. i kinda loved it. it’s joy.
once i asked a cashier if other children skip thru the aisles? he said a few do.
she’s 17 now. i miss those old days. humming and skipping all the time.
the young mother got everything done. the cake intact. the bag of ice. and seemed to relax with the kids.
really. they were fine.