My suggestion was that if he was going to make such a promise, then there is a way to still participate with another if he can find someone with that same conviction. However, before that, I think he should consider what kind of situation he has put himself in by doing something that I believe scripture says not to do. Matthew 5:33-37ken_sylvania wrote: ↑Sat Aug 26, 2023 7:49 pmTo me it sounds like you're saying that you will separate yourself from these people because they are separating themselves from other Christians, which is wrong.Sudsy wrote: ↑Sat Aug 26, 2023 6:37 pmErnie wrote: ↑Sat Aug 26, 2023 4:41 pm
My views fwiw -
Scenario 1
I grew up in a community that had a large population of OO/Ultra-conservative Mennonites and a large group of OO/Ultra-conservative Brethren. These groups did not share pulpits, did not practice the Holy Kiss with each other, and did not commune together, even though both groups had basically the same doctrine and the same practice. There was little desire in either group to practice these things together. (That in itself I would call sectarianism.) Now if someone from either group would have wanted to do these things with the other group, they would not have been allowed to do so. In my mind this is religious persecution.
In my mind, this is sad. I would never be a member of any church that had this kind of attitude toward others in God's family. God accepts them but I guess they have bigger criteria to be met before they will fellowship with them. That is not true religion. True religion is neither rules-based nor ritual-based. True religion is a relationship with God.
Scenario 2
A person who did not grow up in an Anabaptist or similar church, wants to share pulpits with, wants to practice the holy kiss, the right hand of fellowship, and communion with likeminded believers. But because he is not part of their denomination or fellowship, he is not permitted to do so.
Show me any scripture that supports that. Denominationalism is sourced in man not God.
Scenario 3
A person believes that the New Testament teaches that materialism is wrong. He promises the Lord that he will not join a church that permits materialism. (Anabaptists teach against a lot of things but most do not teach against materialism.) Since it is rare to find an Anabaptist or similar church that teaches against materialism, this brother can't join a church, which also means he can't participate in communion with likeminded believers in those churches.
Then he is going to have to live with the consequences of his conviction. However, he can participate with other believers in communion who will participate with him in a home study group or wherever two or three meet in Jesus name. Even if this means doing this remembrance with just his wife. I believe communion is first and foremost a remembrance practise of what Jesus did to save us from our sins. Jesus didn't tell His disciples at the first communion to first go and formally join a local church so you can participate. And according to some scriptures on the first communion, Jesus did not prevent Judas from participating. Judas may have but wasn't told he couldn't.![]()
I tend to believe what Jesus said about allowing the weeds and the good crop to grow up together and God will sort these out in the end. Others seem to follow Paul more in this and with weeding out things before the end. I sometimes think some left over Phariseeism comes up in Paul's writings when compared to some things Jesus said.“Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.’ But I say to you, Do not take an oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is his footstool, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. And do not take an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil.