R7ehr wrote: ↑Sat Jan 10, 2026 9:33 pm
JohnH wrote: ↑Sat Jan 10, 2026 9:22 pm
R7ehr wrote: ↑Sat Jan 10, 2026 9:01 pm
We have people with Russian Mennonite surnames in our Western churches. I don’t know where you’re getting the idea that we exclude them. The more conservative ones, such as ourselves, do generally seem to be from outside the USA and the ones inside the USA are largely either liberal or not in the same geographical area of the Swiss/Germans.
As a general rule, Swiss Brethren-background plain Anabaptists do not include churches that have a different dominant ethnic group. (Sometimes they will include their own missions they established, but that is all.) There is usually some excuse about some kind of doctrinal problem, or that a group is inherently sinful, etc. as the reason for the exclusion.
Of course a minority of people from other backgrounds are tolerated in Swiss churches, although it is quite rare to see them ordained to ministry.
Here’s a list of Russian/Dutch people that we have:
Dyck
Brandt
Dick
Dueck
Friesen
Janzen
Reimer
Krahn
Martens
Wadel
Theissen
Wiebe
Horning
Christner
Fehr
Penner
Interesting enough, there are a few of our congregations that have the bulk of these names. Some of these are ordained.
Around 7 or so of these names appear in my recent ancestry. (I have very close Wedel ancestry, but no one ever spelled it Wadel. Same name? Who knows. The only Wadel I have ever heard of was not 'Russian Mennonite'.) There are some others which while I have heard them before, are not names of people I have actually met personally. A few are names that I have never heard before, as having any relationship at all with Plautdietsch identity. (Incidentally, I only know of two family names that are in both Swiss Brethren and Plautdietsch background - going back far enough that any cross-overs had to have been more than 5 or so generations back: Barkman and Funk. Neither of these are among my direct ancestors, but I have close relatives with both of these surnames.)
In my family background, Flemish and Frisian mix was fairly common already multiple generations back. The more recent mix in my family is between people with history in the Cortitza vs the Molotschna colonies - my parents are the start of that mix. There were also some Plautdietsch dialect differences involved there as well, perhaps part of the reason that I did not learn to speak it myself. There is one of my ancestors, my 4th Great grandfather, whose ancestry is completely unknown. He was found as an abandoned infant in the Cortitza colony, and raised as their own son by a Mennonite couple. He was not, however, given their surname, but instead, a made up one, after the name of the bush under which he was found. That name is Boese. All Mennonite Boese families descend from that one man. (A similar case in my wife's Amish background family is that all Amish Kline families come from a man who was taken in from the outside by an Amish family as a child. His birth father's name had been Cly.)
As a Plautietsch person now living in the midst of Swiss Brethren people, I would not say that there is any special 'distance' in the way I'm regarded or treated. There is the understandable difference of cultural attitudes and foods, etc., and some reactions that are perhaps based on the rarity of anyone coming in from outside the Amish-Swiss Mennonite background, and then actually staying long term. And, all of my grandchildren 'wear Amish names', so the Buller name will very possibly not be carried on at all in my case. (The only people I've met around here that have any Bullers in their ancestry are people of Holdeman descent.)
Something I feel fairly certain that I do see in Amish and Swiss Mennonite culture is a tendency to regard one's grandchildren who carry your own surname a bit differently than those who are the children of one's own daughters. (That is, the former are 'favored' in some ways. This is not surprising in paternalistic cultures, but as an 'out-law' can feel a bit 'offensive' - finding one's own children occasionally subtly treated as 'second-class grandchildren'. But I am not 'offended'. I have tried to think of a softer term, but cannot think of how else I should say it.)