Ernie wrote: ↑Mon Dec 18, 2023 7:58 am
Early Anabaptists were sometimes called "the new monastics" because of their commitment to live simple holy lives.
The article below talks about the steps one takes to join a Catholic Order. While I do not support all of Catholic doctrine, and vowing to be part of a particular Order for the rest of one's life, there is lots I think we can learn from them.
Yes. I have a dear friend who washed out of an order after 3 weeks. She found it was simply not for her.
A challenge for plain Anabaptists is that nearly everyone who would go through such a formal process would probably wash out, as well. So then what would we do with all these wash-outs?
I think the reasons many people do not join Anabaptist churches or stay with Anabaptist churches has to do with confusion between what it takes to be a Christian, and what is expected of those who join an Anabaptist church (values and standards), and no way for a seeker to experience full fellowship in the body of Christ, before adopting all of the values and standards.
I think a "two-tiered" membership would create more problems than it would solve. You say you want them to experience "full fellowship", but if there is a higher tier than most the members of a church have attained, those in the lower tier aren't actually going to experience "full fellowship". Charity and some other more liberal plain Anabaptist groups already experimented with allowing baptism and communion for people who aren't upholding all church standards, and it didn't lead to an improved outcome.
Here is a more pertinent question: let's say you have a church that has this two-tiered membership. Someone attempts to join the Order, but washes out. They will want to attend church, be baptised, go to communion and so on. But what happens when they want to get married? Perhaps they want to get married to someone from a family that is fully committed. So what happens then?
Likewise, let's say some families are seeker families who wash out of joining the "Order". Should their kids attend school or not? What happens with the lifestyle conflicts when eg their children watch TV and talk about TV at school, when the rest of the students and families have a standard against that?