Reflecting wrote:Neto wrote:
My question has to do with what the word 'head' means when it is NOT referring to a literal head.
I’m still admitting swimming in water way over my head. Not your fault.
I don’t wish to further junk up your serious thread with my confusion.

Just to be clearer
to me, could “literal head” equally be called “physical head”?
And I’m still stuck with the source of life equals giving one authority and therefore not seeing the distinction. Sorry to be dense here and if you get tired of trying to help the blind see, please just ignore me and carry on.
Yes, in my understanding at least, 'literal head' means 'physical head'.
The main distinction I see is that if the covered & uncovered heads are seen as symbols of the headship principle, then headship is the central thought of the passage. It seems to me now, however, that the principle is the uncovered & covered heads, and what has been mistaken for a principle of headship as the central focus of the text is actually functioning as a Biblical support for the covered & uncovered heads, which is actually the main point of the text, not just a symbol of something else.
I do agree that there is an element of authority associated with being the life giving source, but am I wrong to focus on the giving part? That is the graciousness of God, that he gave his son to give life to us. The part about man giving life to woman is possibly just filling out the argument, and tying it more clearly into the talk of creation. If I'm wrong about that, then I could say, that as a man, I need to recognize my responsibility to "give life" to my wife. Authority always comes with responsibility, and positions of authority (respect) generally need to be earned. But I think we can focus so much on the authority side (as a man, looking on to my wife, who is thereby under my authority) that we miss looking up to the one who is life-giving. It makes it easier to pass that on, realizing where it is coming from.
I'm just thinking out loud here. As I said, I translated I Cor 11:3 very strongly couched in authority language, rather than in grace language. I want to know if I had it wrong.