Soloist wrote: ↑Wed Oct 20, 2021 7:46 am
Neto wrote: ↑Wed Oct 20, 2021 7:33 am
In regards to taking children (or women, for that matter) into "dangerous environments" (especially in regards to organized criminal danger) I would suggest that a distinction be made between short-term "missions" (especially such as building projects) and long-term (for example, 15 years or more) missionary work.
[Even medically related dangers should receive more attention in cases of short-term mission trips. Long-term missionary candidates receive special training and precautions (at least in the case of organizations like WBT) in regards to the dangers of things like malaria, cholera, amoebic dysentery, etc. Of course we sometimes had visitors come into the village that got off of the plane wearing rubber boots (because of the "snakes"), while we walked out to great them in our sandals. Some some are very cautious, and others won't listen to basic advice, like staying inside (or using special protection) during dawn & dusk hours in malaria areas. Some are inclined to "flaunt their faith", throwing caution to the wind. Living long-term with these dangers is the price of doing ministry, but getting malaria or Dengue on a 1 or 2 week stay because of a lack of proper precautions is, in my opinion, over the top. (Disclaimer: None of us caught malaria, Dengue fever, or Cholera, although it was around us at various times during our years in the Amazon. I had amoebic dysentery on various occasions, apparently being very susceptible to it. It can turn a 10-day work project into multiple days on a starvation diet, unable to do any useful work. All it takes is a soft drink with ice made with tap water, a salad with lettuce that was not properly washed, or a fruit "smoothy" made w/ tap water or "tap ice". Or, just touching your lips after handling produce in the market or grocery store.)]
I can completely agree. Where people would bicker is what length would turn into long term.
For practical reasons, a married man shouldn't be away long term from his wife and children. Much more then a month would be problematic in my eyes. Doesn't mean it can't be done, but I think it isn't wise.
As far as special training goes, its only as good as the level of complacency the person has. Ebola is a contact disease, yet "highly trained" nurses and doctors got it. Why? they suck at taking suits off, not to mention the CDC guidelines for removing them isn't safe or effective
I'm also not very fond of short term missions... I think its far more effective to live with people for years to build relationships and contacts rather then change them every 1-3 years. Of course... that would require people to sacrifice too much
WBT did not allow for a couple to be apart more than 6 weeks for any one stretch. I was away that long one time, on the first trip to the village to build the airstrip. Then my wife was away for around 4 weeks twice, to the States while I stayed in Brazil. Once it was for a medical reason, and I came up when it was decided that she would have surgery, and the other time for her aunt's wedding.
There ARE advantages to short-term mission trips, it's just that in my experience very seldom did any of those "advantages" impact the people. More than once a young person came down with Team Missions or some other similar agency, and then later came back for a year or two, to do office-type support work. (We generally didn't remember them, but they remembered us.) Some others went to Bible college for training, and took a full-time missionary assignment. Others just learned to have a burden for mission work, and advocated for it in their home congregations. The other benefit which I certainly do not want to pass over w/o mentioning, is the encouragement that the missionaries can receive from these visits. Sure, it generally make a fair bit of extra work for the full-time people, but generally it is worth it, at least from our experience and perspective. Actually, we did get quite a few visits in the village when we first started, because it was one of the most isolated places WBT Brazil was working, and it was also just newly opened for easy access via the airplane. (It took us 4 days to get there that first time, and we had flown an hour to a nearby river town the day before. That 4 days on the river was 12 to 15 minutes in the air later on.)
But back to the separation. Our daughter was 1 year old when I left that time, and when I got back, she didn't know me anymore. (I had to go to the door and leave the house so she would be willing to go to bed, then sneak back in after my wife took her to her bedroom.)
Congregation: Gospel Haven Mennonite Fellowship, Benton, Ohio (Holmes Co.) a split from Beachy-Amish Mennonite.
Personal heritage & general theological viewpoint: conservative Mennonite Brethren.