I understand your concern, but let me tell the other side of the story.nett wrote: ↑Sat Jul 31, 2021 8:34 pm The next generation started marrying, initially each married couple chooses to attend the least conservative church between the two of theirs. The more conservative parents are disappointed, but the strong families remain a source of stability for the younger couples, even as they attend churches that provides none of that stability.
As more young people go through this transition, it becomes increasingly attractive, and less conservative church becomes the de factor church of choice for the younger generation. As the older people scratch their heads about why everyone is leaving, they continue to fellowship with and support their children, even as they drift towards a more and more worldly existence.
The next generation started marrying; initially each married couple chooses to attend the more conservative church between the two of theirs. The more conservative parents are thrilled, but the less conservative spouse brings less conservative ideas and practices into the marriage and into the church. As more young people go through this transition, it becomes increasingly attractive, and the more conservative church becomes the de facto church of choice for the younger generation. The older people fellowship with and support their children, and together they drift towards a more and more worldly existence.
So eventually instead of a more conservative church and a less conservative church, there's a less conservative church and an even less conservative church.
Perhaps the answer is found in 1 Cor 7:8.
Revoking membership when they are leaving anyway isn't much of a threat. It's appropriate to communicate concern about the direction they seem to be headed, but being overly dramatic about what lies at the bottom of the slippery slope can cause people to .With all that said, I see no solution to this drift without the CMs coming back to some kind of ban or disfellowship when members leave the church for no reason but to be more worldly. It's hard for me to even say that, because it feels "wrong", and it's daunting to even consider what it would take to quantify in a church rulebook what it means to leave for a "more worldly" church, but I simply see no alternative.
Allow me to quote from Marpeck (naturally): Kunstbuch, ed. Rempel 2010, p. 152-154. The context is worth reading as well.
Now the true believers are forbidden to condemn all these people [slaves to self-made freedom; hypocrites] before the right time, that is, until their fruit, which is open vice, appears. Christ says: "By their fruits (he does not say: by the blossoms or the foliage) you shall know them." ... For no one may judge the heart until the fruit appears or until the outpouring of the treasure of the heart occurs. ... Whoever therefore establishes, commands, prohibits, coerces, punishes, or judges before the time the good or evil fruit is revealed, lays claim to the authority, power, and office of the Holy Spirit of the Lord Jesus Christ and, contrary to love, goodness, and grace, runs ahead of Christ Jesus. ... Therefore, even if one is concerned about a lapse or burdened with worry and sees the leaves and blossoms of evil appearance, one ought only to warn and admonish, but not judge, before the time of the fruit....
On the other hand, if the sin and wickedness evident from the revealed fruit is revealed through wrath in the righteousness of Christ, one must be ready to judge and decide with Christ, the true judge; otherwise, he too is a thief and murderer. He runs behind Jesus Christ and not with Christ....
But everywhere the devil selectively uses his weapons against us through the dead letter. Some do not want to judge at all, and take refuge behind Mt. 7:1: "Judge not, that you be not judged. Do not condemn, so that you will not be condemned." They do not see the contrary statement, Mt. 18:15: "If your brother sins, discipline him."