Bootstrap wrote: ↑Tue Nov 04, 2025 4:47 pm
JohnH wrote: ↑Tue Nov 04, 2025 4:04 pm
German is kind of pointless to learn since it is quite rare to run into a German speaker who can't communicate in English.
Last time I was in Germany, I went with my wife, who does not speak German. And I found out just how many of the people I knew well cannot communicate well in English. I spent a week translating back and forth.
If you meet educated Germans in the United States, they generally do speak really good English. But if you travel in rural areas or have friends with less formal education, they may not. When I lived in Germany, a lot of my friends were East Germans without college degrees.
I imagine younger Germans who are more online are also likely to speak good English, but I don't know.
i expect this is correct.
In 2007-8, my sil was interviewing for work in Montreal, international company, he had no French.
He was assured, “No problem! We all speak English, work in English, meet in English!” - Off they went, with their firstborn.
This was not correct. Everything was in French. ugh. It was rough for him.
My daughter had French in HS, the baby got along fine. My daughter found a plus, saying she believed being in a basically French world, probably helped their young marriage.

That is, he wasn’t so tempted to run off with his buddies as he probably would have been in the U.S. (
unexpected marriage counsel there).

He happened to play ice hockey, that helped him in Montreal!
We don’t think he was intentionally deceived!
It’s not at all unusual for personal perceptions to vary widely.

Even within one common language!
i’m sure they all knew English! They didn’t realize how little they used it.
2 years in Montreal - then, Dallas!

i was impressed he made it for 2 years. i expect it did help their fledgling marriage.
focus, focus!