I know some people see a special significance in the number "twelve". I don't think there's anything magical about it.joshuabgood wrote: ↑Fri Sep 11, 2026 11:47 amThanks for helping me understand your thinking and I can see where you are coming from. It isn't as clear to me that Jesus teaching the 12 communion so they could disciple others is meant as guidance for how the church practices it. Why wouldn't, if we were to follow that pattern, communion be relegated to only 12? Or at least a similar number?ken_sylvania wrote: ↑Wed Sep 09, 2026 10:54 pm My experience, in virtually every kind of human relationship, is that close relationships require effort, require time, require understanding, require communication, require trust. Relationships with other Christians are the same. If I've only just met someone, it takes time and communication to begin to understand that person and build a relationship with him. I find it impossible to bring someone I've just met into that close inner circle of trust and mutual understanding. Now, that doesn't mean we can't fellowship together. It doesn't mean we can't encourage one another in following Christ. But we really don't know each other much at all at that point.
Communion, as I believe Jesus intends for it to be practiced, is to be among a group of people who do share a close bond - a group of people committed to washing one another's feet in their spiritual lives, a group of people committed to sharing in Christ's sacrificial blood. It is simply a fact of human existence that I cannot share a close mutual fellowship with twenty thousand people. But I can choose to take time for the brethren in my local congregation, to be there for them, to take the time that it takes to build a close bond with them. Communion is not just a commemoration of Jesus' broken body and shed blood, but also a reminder of how we are in this together.
While the Scriptures don't tell us how communion must be done, I would suggest that the pattern Jesus gave us lends itself more toward "close" communion than toward the idea that sharing the bread and wine should be freely with any person who names the name of Christ.
We know that as Jesus' earthly ministry drew toward its close he had many followers - many who believed in him. Perhaps still a small group in comparison to the crowds gathering in Jerusalem, but certainly more than twelve. And yet, Jesus had a close circle of disciples who were much closer to Him than the rest of His followers. And among those twelve, a smaller group who seem to have been even closer.
When it came time to initiate the first communion, Jesus didn't choose a location where a large group of his disciples could gather. The participants invited to this communion were not random. They were his close friends, those who had demonstrated their dedication to following him. Although Jesus in his perfect knowledge knew that Judas Iscariot was a traitor, yet Judas Iscariot was up to that point demonstrating perfect fidelity as far as human eye could know, and so Judas was included. I would hope that none of us would believe that because Jesus did not invite His remaining followers to this communion service He was therefore judging them as not being His followers.
I'm not sure there is a better way than to follow the pattern Jesus demonstrated.
It does also seem like a worthy point, to me, that Jesus didn't exclude Judas. All present were invited to the communion table.
I would be interested in hearing you explain the Biblical rationale or pattern demonstrating that communion should be shared at a "lowest common denominator" level as opposed to a close group.
I think this framing is inaccurate by it's failure to recognize that the entire event was an "invitation only" event. That point would be more relevant to argue for communion as a private service than to argue that all who attend a public service should be invited to the communion table.joshuabgood wrote: ↑Fri Sep 11, 2026 11:47 am It does also seem like a worthy point, to me, that Jesus didn't exclude Judas. All present were invited to the communion table.