mike wrote: ↑Mon Nov 18, 2024 11:58 amI also think finances were a factor; our conference's practice is to invite an outside observer to oversee the entire process and also share some sermons, which incurs some financial cost, so why not get two for one money?
Sounds like a thrifty thing to do. But why not. Especially if no significant gain is to be had with two speakers.
mike wrote: ↑Mon Nov 18, 2024 11:58 amThere were discussions about the proposal to do a double ordination, and one of the reasons given was that given the emotional toll it would be better to rip off the whole bandage at once as opposed to doing two separate ordinations.
The emotional toll seems completely unnecessary to me. As I understand, the Amish and German Baptists simply announce at a regular church meeting that an ordination will take place, and the appointment/ordination happens before everyone goes home. Granted, people might not be able to give as much thought and prayer to it which could be a downside.
A bishop recently told me that ordinations and building projects are what stretches congregations the most, sometimes to the breaking point.
Who to include and who to leave out and what roles to fill in both scenarios is what causes stress in some situations. And then what to do with opposing strong feelings about a matter can also be a stress. I think that workable compromises can often be agreed upon (that have no ethical considerations) but some leaders (and non-ordained folks) find that process difficult to navigate.
For most Mennonite congregations, the emotional stress of waiting to find out who will be appointed/ordained can nearly drive some people bonkers. Delaying some step of the process can nearly push them over the edge emotionally.
Some in the congregation hope to be considered for leadership and some hope not to be and this can create quite a bit of emotional stress for them. (Especially whenever you are not supposed to give any indication that you would like to serve or not serve as this could indicate that you think you are perhaps qualified and might be voted for, which is an arrogant assumption.)
And then if you are in the lot...
There is the whole thing of inviting friends and family to the ordination in case the lot falls on you. And then going through the interview process. And then hosting family and friends and picking them up at the airport, etc. (because they want to be present if you are ordained) Only to not have the lot fall on you anyhow... which for me was a great relief both times I went through this... as I did not feel a particular calling at that congregation anyhow. And then you and your wife both waking up and being wide awake in the middle of the night due to the adrenalin and emotional roller coaster of the past week.
It begins to make the Amish and GB approach look quite attractive.
And then there are all the visiting ordained people who come for the occasion. As well as dozens of others. And they all file by making all sorts of helpful and unhelpful comments. (Christian Light has a pamphlet written by John Coblentz for those for whom the lot did not fall on, titled: Called To Be A Layman. I used to send this to acquaintances for whom the lot did not fall on. If a person had a premonition that they were going to be ordained and the lot did fall on them, then they have a story to tell. But if you had a premonition that you were going to be ordained, and the lot did not fall on you... well... you can't really tell anyone about this except for a couple people close to you who might be able to help you sort through the confusion. I've never had anything like this, but it seems that many have.
And then there are all the people in the congregation who wanted a certain person appointed/ordained, and after 6 months of emotional build up, the lot does not fall on that person but on a person they do not think is capable or qualified. This can take an emotional toll as well.
And then there are sometimes men who got "deselected" by the presiding bishops and other ordained folks. And these folks and their friends and relatives need to deal with all the emotional stuff that goes along with this.
So yes, having a double ordination to relieve emotional stress seems like a wise thing!
