The scenario you describe is remarkably similar to the way "faith missions" (such as WBT, under whom we served) operate. The "fine line" is that when you send in donations to the mission agency, you may REQUEST that the monies go to a certain project or missionary couple or team (NOT on the check - on a separate paper), but you may not SPECIFY that it go to them. If it is specified, or designated, that is a personal gift, and falls under separate tax law. The mission agency respects the request of the donor, and the funds flow through as though they had been designated. But the mission agency has the full legal right to divert the funds, should they choose to do so. The difference is that the donor has completely released control over the funds.joshuabgood wrote: ↑Tue Nov 21, 2023 4:24 pm A somewhat common scenario in CA circles is where somebody will "donate" the tuition for a needy family specifically and then ask for a tax deductible receipt. This is not acceptable/legal. If it were we could all pay each others tuition (I pay yours you pay mine) and have it be tax deductible. Specific gifts to individuals can be given, however, they are not deductible. Same is true in church offerings incidentally.
EDIT TO ADD: I did the book work for our mission fund for 12 years, and it sometimes happened that a parent would make a donation to the fund to assist in their own child's expenses for a mission or youth out-reach effort. It bothered me, but I always did as they had pretty much specified, with a clear designation for their own child.