I believe this as well but voting is not a part of my life.
People who choose detention: What does good look like?
Re: People who choose detention: What does good look like?
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Re: People who choose detention: What does good look like?
On one of our return trips to Brazil we met a Brazilian man & his American wife, and after our flight was diverted to another airport (in Brazil), we visited with them during the long lay-over. He had come to the States illegally, in ignorance of the law. (And I tended to believe him, that he really didn't know that entering the US as he did was illegal.)
After he had worked off his 'entry fees' from the 'trafficer' who got him across (which took about 10 years), he moved to Kentucky and met a woman there. He went to their county courthouse to apply for a marriage certificate (still not knowing that he was in the country illegally), which was apparently granted, although the county then reported him as an illegal, and he was deported. She went with him. So being deported does not need to break up a marriage. That would be the choice of the American spouse. (I'm guessing that the US authorities didn't inform them of any legal options they might have had, to be able to appeal the deportation.)
How could he, and his American wife, not have known the law? He was from a small back-water town in Rondonia, and she was an Appalachian mountain girl. I believed them.
After he had worked off his 'entry fees' from the 'trafficer' who got him across (which took about 10 years), he moved to Kentucky and met a woman there. He went to their county courthouse to apply for a marriage certificate (still not knowing that he was in the country illegally), which was apparently granted, although the county then reported him as an illegal, and he was deported. She went with him. So being deported does not need to break up a marriage. That would be the choice of the American spouse. (I'm guessing that the US authorities didn't inform them of any legal options they might have had, to be able to appeal the deportation.)
How could he, and his American wife, not have known the law? He was from a small back-water town in Rondonia, and she was an Appalachian mountain girl. I believed them.
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People can get married regardless of immigration status.Neto wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 9:44 am On one of our return trips to Brazil we met a Brazilian man & his American wife, and after our flight was diverted to another airport (in Brazil), we visited with them during the long lay-over. He had come to the States illegally, in ignorance of the law. (And I tended to believe him, that he really didn't know that entering the US as he did was illegal.)
After he had worked off his 'entry fees' from the 'trafficer' who got him across (which took about 10 years), he moved to Kentucky and met a woman there. He went to their county courthouse to apply for a marriage certificate (still not knowing that he was in the country illegally), which was apparently granted, although the county then reported him as an illegal, and he was deported. She went with him. So being deported does not need to break up a marriage. That would be the choice of the American spouse. (I'm guessing that the US authorities didn't inform them of any legal options they might have had, to be able to appeal the deportation.)
How could he, and his American wife, not have known the law? He was from a small back-water town in Rondonia, and she was an Appalachian mountain girl. I believed them.
A lot of people get married for economic immigration benefits. An easy test is if they are willing to live in either spouse’s country (or a third country willing to take both of them). If they aren’t there is a major problem.
Utah allows “virtual weddings” which are conducted remotely and both people don’t have to be present together. Often people apply for immigration benefits who aren’t even living together. Needless to say they often are denied a visa and it’s hard for me to see how this is a bad thing. I don’t think marriages for immigration benefits shown be promoted.
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Yes, that's the right question - what does the law say?ken_sylvania wrote: ↑Thu Feb 12, 2026 6:27 pm In some ways yes, he was using the legal system. But was he also ignoring the requirements that he didn't like? If he is legally allowed only 90 days in the US without a visa - it seems like weasel words to say "He overstayed years ago" as if his overstay isn't a current, ongoing action. You say he was participating in the process the law provides for someone in his position - and maybe he was, but was he following the law? Does the law say he gets to stay in the US without a visa as long as he is applying for one?
The law you are looking for is 8 USC 1255: Adjustment of status of nonimmigrant to that of person admitted for permanent residence, and that's basically what it says.
8 U.S.C. §1255 allows certain people who were legally admitted into the U.S. to apply for “adjustment of status” without leaving the country. For spouses of U.S. citizens, Congress specifically removed the normal penalties for overstaying. That means they can remain while the application is processed.
This isn’t a loophole. It was written deliberately into the law.
The reason is that once an American citizen is married and living with their spouse here, forcing the spouse to leave can mean years of separation or forcing the American citizen to leave their own country. Congress decided that protecting American families was more important than requiring couples to separate just to complete paperwork abroad.
The law reflects values as well as rules. One of those values is family unity. Congress decided that protecting American families from prolonged separation was important enough to justify allowing in-country adjustment for spouses.ken_sylvania wrote: ↑Thu Feb 12, 2026 6:27 pmI can sympathize with the man - I know someone who married a non-US citizen and it was a tough couple of years for them to not be allowed to come to the US together until proper visas could be obtained. But if we're going to talk about the laws being enforced evenly, why should someone get priority and be allowed to stay in the US while his green card application is processed just because he broke the rules when other people who are following the rules are made to wait outside the US?
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1. Are we discussing the topic? Good.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
Re: People who choose detention: What does good look like?
These are legitimate questions for judges to consider, but I don't think online forums are a place for us to make these judgements about others.JohnH wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 10:56 amPeople can get married regardless of immigration status.
A lot of people get married for economic immigration benefits. An easy test is if they are willing to live in either spouse’s country (or a third country willing to take both of them). If they aren’t there is a major problem.
Utah allows “virtual weddings” which are conducted remotely and both people don’t have to be present together. Often people apply for immigration benefits who aren’t even living together. Needless to say they often are denied a visa and it’s hard for me to see how this is a bad thing. I don’t think marriages for immigration benefits shown be promoted.
Suppose you were an immigrant receiving government benefits. Would you want an online forum to debate the validity of your marriage? Some things are clearly just negative gossip, the kind the Bible warns against.
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1. Are we discussing the topic? Good.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
Re: People who choose detention: What does good look like?
Now that we know the details, it really is that simple.
They were already following the process laid out in 8 U.S.C. §1255. ICE detained him anyway, even though he had a pending adjustment application and a work permit.
If someone is eligible to adjust status and has a case pending, the question is really how to handle the case efficiently and humanely. Immigration courts are severely backlogged. Detention is expensive. Allowing people with pending legal cases to live and work while their case proceeds is far less costly than holding them in detention.
If the backlog is the problem, the obvious solution is to fund the courts adequately so cases can be resolved promptly. The goal is to enforce the law, not to punish people and make a spectacle of them.
If the goal is to enforce the law, then do it fairly and efficiently. Detaining someone who is already in the legal process, with a work permit and a family here, doesn’t fix the backlog. It just shifts the burden of the system’s own delays onto vulnerable families.
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1. Are we discussing the topic? Good.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
Re: People who choose detention: What does good look like?
Are any laws not being followed?Bootstrap wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 12:45 pmNow that we know the details, it really is that simple.
They were already following the process laid out in 8 U.S.C. §1255. ICE detained him anyway, even though he had a pending adjustment application and a work permit.
If someone is eligible to adjust status and has a case pending, the question is really how to handle the case efficiently and humanely. Immigration courts are severely backlogged. Detention is expensive. Allowing people with pending legal cases to live and work while their case proceeds is far less costly than holding them in detention.
If the backlog is the problem, the obvious solution is to fund the courts adequately so cases can be resolved promptly. The goal is to enforce the law, not to punish people and make a spectacle of them.
If the goal is to enforce the law, then do it fairly and efficiently. Detaining someone who is already in the legal process, with a work permit and a family here, doesn’t fix the backlog. It just shifts the burden of the system’s own delays onto vulnerable families.
Do you have any commentary on him being a fugitive from justice from Ireland?
Do you think fugitives should be given green cards?
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That’s exactly what the courts are for. They can decide. He had a pending application under §1255 and work authorization, which means he was already in the legal process Congress created for people in his position.JohnH wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 2:50 pmAre any laws not being followed?Bootstrap wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 12:45 pmNow that we know the details, it really is that simple.
They were already following the process laid out in 8 U.S.C. §1255. ICE detained him anyway, even though he had a pending adjustment application and a work permit.
If someone is eligible to adjust status and has a case pending, the question is really how to handle the case efficiently and humanely. Immigration courts are severely backlogged. Detention is expensive. Allowing people with pending legal cases to live and work while their case proceeds is far less costly than holding them in detention.
If the backlog is the problem, the obvious solution is to fund the courts adequately so cases can be resolved promptly. The goal is to enforce the law, not to punish people and make a spectacle of them.
If the goal is to enforce the law, then do it fairly and efficiently. Detaining someone who is already in the legal process, with a work permit and a family here, doesn’t fix the backlog. It just shifts the burden of the system’s own delays onto vulnerable families.
The question is whether detention is necessary while that decision is pending. I don't think that's what "good" looks like.
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1. Are we discussing the topic? Good.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
Re: People who choose detention: What does good look like?
If someone is a fugitive from justice in Ireland, would you feel detention may be appropriate whilst awaiting this decision? (As a reminder, they already made their decision, but he lodged an appeal, which is why it is taking longer.)Bootstrap wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 3:43 pm That’s exactly what the courts are for. They can decide. He had a pending application under §1255 and work authorization, which means he was already in the legal process Congress created for people in his position.
The question is whether detention is necessary while that decision is pending. I don't think that's what "good" looks like.
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If he were an actual public safety threat, detention would make sense. But a low-level offense under appeal isn’t the same as being a dangerous fugitive. Let the courts decide — detention should be based on real risk, weighed against the cost of tearing apart a family and their livelihood.JohnH wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 4:16 pmIf someone is a fugitive from justice in Ireland, would you feel detention may be appropriate whilst awaiting this decision? (As a reminder, they already made their decision, but he lodged an appeal, which is why it is taking longer.)Bootstrap wrote: ↑Fri Feb 13, 2026 3:43 pm That’s exactly what the courts are for. They can decide. He had a pending application under §1255 and work authorization, which means he was already in the legal process Congress created for people in his position.
The question is whether detention is necessary while that decision is pending. I don't think that's what "good" looks like.
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1. Are we discussing the topic? Good.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.
2. Are we going around and around in a fight? Let's stop doing that.
3. Is there some serious wrongdoing or relational injury? Let's address that, probably not in public and certainly not for show.