If you had read the story you would have discovered that the Oregon single mother that I cited already had 5 children and was seeking to ADOPT two more, not be a foster parent. From the article:Josh wrote: ↑Sat May 18, 2024 10:20 pmI don't like either. I think fornication is wrong, and that it causes bad consequences, especially for children. I think being a birth parent out of wedlock is also bad, and is proven to cause bad outcomes.
A foster carer is irrelevant to this discussion and is not the same as a birth single mother. Like I said, it's disgusting you'd even compare the two.
Like I said, it seems like it is really just single people having sex that you disapprove of, not single parenting.That revelation led Bates to Oregon's foster care system, where she decided she wanted to adopt two kids — siblings under the age of 9. But when she went to fill out forms for her home evaluation, she got hung up on one section.
Because if it was really an issue of parental negligence then we would be asking the state to look into and punish married families as well for things like improperly educating their children, or failing to vaccinate them, or failing to give them appropriate medical care, or feeding them poor diets, or letting them operate dangerous farm machinery, or beating them, etc. etc. etc.
And note. I am nowhere defending single parenting. I think parenting is already hard enough with two parents. I can't imagine doing it with just one. I'm simply pushing back on the notion that the solution to this issue is to criminalize it rather than figure out how to reduce the incident of single parents. Such as keeping kids in school. Dropping out of school also correlates heavily with getting pregnant out of wedlock. So education would be the logical place to start, not the criminal justice system. Promoting birth control is also an obvious way to reduce unwanted pregnancies that has proven highly effective around the world.
One thing that hasn't proven effective? Trying to ban premarital sex.