When does "teasing" cross the line?

[JohnL]

In your culture when do you think that teasing crosses the line and becomes malicious mockery?

[Ken]

When it is unwanted and cruel.

[Bootstrap]

If someone tells you your teasing has crossed the line — then it has. That’s not the moment to double down; that’s the moment to back off.

It turns toxic fast when someone insists on the right to treat others in ways that make them uncomfortable, or tells them they don’t have the right to object.

[R7ehr]

After 2 or 3 sentences.

[Neto]

Any time it creates a negative impression of that person, or makes them embarrassed or uncomfortable due to a unbecoming or undignified slant.

[Bootstrap]

I like the answers that I see in this thread. A few more thoughts ...

• Is the teasing done for their benefit—or for mine?
  (Am I building them up, or showing off at their expense?)
• Does it make them feel included—or singled out?
  (Am I inviting them closer, or pushing them away?)
• Is it actually fun for them?
  (Do they look relaxed, amused, engaged?)
• Are they free to tease back?
  (Is there mutual play—or is this one-sided?)
• Do they feel safe and respected?
  (Would they laugh with me even if no one else were watching?)
• Are we both laughing?
  (Or is one of us performing, while the other endures?)

[the-real-steve]

Sarcasm is my second language. To that end, I make fun of myself twice as much as anyone else. I really don't "tease" others un less they start in on me first, then it's game on

[JoyE]

It seems common to me that people can tease more than they can take.

[JohnL]

Related to the topic:
When someone starts in with the sarcasm and mockery what do you say or do to stop it in its tracks?
My wife and I will say "Count your blessings." It usually shifts the conversation away from the hostility.

[the-real-steve]

Related to the topic:
When someone starts in with the sarcasm and mockery what do you say or do to stop it in its tracks?
My wife and I will say "Count your blessings." It usually shifts the conversation away from the hostility.

Chuckle and walk away. Works for me.