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by mercysfree
Mon Sep 02, 2019 11:12 pm
Forum: Anabaptist Theology and Practice
Topic: Genesis 38
Replies: 11
Views: 1870

Re: Genesis 38

And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret. Ephesians 5:11-12 I would say this text would apply more to us under the New Covenant. Speak up and say what is sin but one doesn'...
by mercysfree
Mon Sep 02, 2019 10:38 pm
Forum: Anabaptist Theology and Practice
Topic: Genesis 38
Replies: 11
Views: 1870

Re: Genesis 38

I think no answers to this thread for 24 hours pretty well settles whether Mennos really do have a problem knowing how to discuss shameful sexual sin. So let us not pretend there. Rather, let's try to figure out how to remediate our fault and discuss it frankly, yet without being totally icky. And F...
by mercysfree
Thu Aug 29, 2019 7:37 pm
Forum: Anabaptist Theology and Practice
Topic: Is Change Possible for Homosexuality?
Replies: 15
Views: 551

Re: Is Change Possible for Homosexuality?

Why do people treat homosexual urges as something in a separate class from heterosexual urges? No one is asking if a married man is "healed" from the urge to look at women besides his wife once he decides to marry! Both are wrong. I am not going to limit God; a person might be delivered fr...
by mercysfree
Sat Aug 24, 2019 12:17 am
Forum: Anabaptist Theology and Practice
Topic: Back to School!
Replies: 11
Views: 763

Re: Back to School!

Formal education is unnecessary unless one trains for an occupation that requires it. Many people benefit from formal education, but many more learn as well or better in alternative settings. I went to public school, nursing school, and have a recent bachelor's degree, but I have learned much more o...
by mercysfree
Fri Aug 23, 2019 8:50 pm
Forum: Anabaptist Theology and Practice
Topic: Stress: Today vs. Past Generations
Replies: 12
Views: 624

Re: Stress: Today vs. Past Generations

Recently there was an article in the local newspaper about stress in todays society versus that of past generations. This got me pondering that subject and I would love to start a discussion about it, with the input of Christian people. Mental health has always been a "dark" subject for t...
by mercysfree
Thu Aug 22, 2019 8:53 pm
Forum: Other
Topic: Identifying and Finding Appropriate Clothing
Replies: 50
Views: 2371

Re: Identifying and Finding Appropriate Clothing

One helpful thing for us when we began dressing like the church tradition was other women and girls offering to help us sew.
by mercysfree
Thu Aug 22, 2019 8:50 pm
Forum: Other
Topic: Identifying and Finding Appropriate Clothing
Replies: 50
Views: 2371

Re: Identifying and Finding Appropriate Clothing

The very plainest clothing can end up violating Scriptural standards if the wearer's heart isn't modest and simple. I remember my oldest daughter's dismay over clothing conversations she heard while away for the first time at a nearby winter Bible school. The dress regulations were so strict, includ...
by mercysfree
Wed Aug 21, 2019 9:00 pm
Forum: Anabaptist Theology and Practice
Topic: Preferring Husband Versus Preferring Church
Replies: 65
Views: 2965

Re: Preferring Husband Versus Preferring Church

It is possible someone would have talked to my SS brother above privately. I should not assume all were ok with it. But this reminds me, and since I started the thread, I guess I can hijack it... :lol: Most people in my congregation would feel wives should do whatever a husband asks unless it is sin...
by mercysfree
Wed Aug 21, 2019 8:19 pm
Forum: Anabaptist Theology and Practice
Topic: Preferring Husband Versus Preferring Church
Replies: 65
Views: 2965

Re: Preferring Husband Versus Preferring Church

My BIL is nice, guys. He is a Christian. He isn't really controlling over things that truly matter, just dumb stuff, like flour, which is why I used it for an illustration of idiocy. It is just kind of an OCD thing for him in the kitchen. It would still drive me nuts to be married to him, but his wi...
by mercysfree
Tue Aug 13, 2019 10:50 pm
Forum: Anabaptist Theology and Practice
Topic: Wm McGrath and Sexual Abuse
Replies: 26
Views: 3111

Re: The *official* CAM scandal links thread

By today's standards it was not very public. It was rumoured about and discussed behind closed doors but to my knowledge it was never dealt with publicly. I may be wrong about that. I remember hearing one leader back in the day tell me with a degree of sadness and maybe a bit of disgust in his voic...