Josh wrote:Displaying virtues of simplicity, modesty, not being costly, displaying gender distinction, and avoiding being an outlet for vanity and pride.
These things are values most of the world does not value.
Alright. I think we're on the same page as far as what constitutes a good Christian testimony in dress. I can point you to personal friends and relations across the country who don't seem to have this great difficulty you reference, and yet they still buy or sometimes make their own clothing. I am beginning to face the same issue with my own children. But we haven't found it to be the great challenge that some imply, and certainly not impossible as you may also sometimes hear (and I have). I won't dispute it takes effort though, as does any conscientious choice, but it's not the great difficulty or improbability (at least from what I've seen) that is implied here. Perhaps you could share what has led you to believe it is?
Does it require a little looking at times for modest clothing? Sure. Does it require you to exercise discernment? Absolutely. Do parents need to guide their children in these areas through word and example, and even address why it may sometimes set them apart from some of their friends? Unquestionably. On the other hand, if we have a rule dictated for cut and style and color for everything we wear (or drive or have or own, etc), it would be infinitely easier in a sense, but through experience I have come to believe the cons of that far outweigh the pros. I suppose a thread could be started on that too.
Overall, I think we would all do well to be more careful with our dogmatic statements on issues like this.