GaryK wrote: ↑Tue Sep 12, 2023 12:37 pm
Now if you decide to stop admonishing everyone else to be more Christlike in their responses to "the other side" then I really don't care what you label "the other side". To me it's not about finding a term that I do not consider snarky. Politics has always been snarky.
Could you be specific about what you mean by "snarky"?
I can't tell if you are talking about something specific that I am doing or how you feel about me when I post things that are critical of MAGA. On many, many subjects, I feel like what I am trying to do is:
1. Ask what the question is
2. Ask what evidence is there
3. Try to apply the same standards to each political side
4. Stick with the subject
5. Avoid personal fights
6. Keep asking how the Kingdom of God should view this, stepping outside political identities
When I do that, I often get the feeling that you are trying to find some fault with me that you can push, changing the subject to "what's wrong with Bootstrap". I am trying not to do the same to you or others. In general, I think it's best to keep reminding each other to return to the subject and keep it based in fact, not trying to tear the other person down. Not gloating over someone who fails to do this, not rubbing it in their face, not trying to turn the crowd against them. Just helping each other talk about subjects reasonably, as Christians.
I hear a lot of vivid descriptions of emotions people imagine me having and things the imagine I must think. I often don't recognize those things in myself. It feels like gaslighting. It feels like turning your critics into enemies to shut them up. In general, MAGA media seems to specialize in this approach to people who are strongly against MAGA - they are portrayed as haters, irrational, people who don't care about America. And I sometimes suspect this is rubbing off in the way people respond to me. I think this is one of the reasons that churches are dividing over MAGA.
Now, it's quite possible that I'm not doing that as well as I imagine, but in light of what I have experienced, I need you to be specific so that i can tell if you are gaslighting me or pointing to something real. So if you have specific behaviors you want me to focus on, please do be clear. But not endlessly, in every thread, let's explore it here.
One example: you really disliked it when I used the term Trumpies. In this thread, I am asking you what term to use. And it feels like you don't want to let me have a term I can use to refer to MAGA at all. Shrug. At that point, it doesn't feel like there's any term that I can use without offending you.
Is it biblical? Is it Christlike? Is it loving? Is it true? How can I find out?