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I do too. I'm fine with some backgrounds questions, but I don't want the conversation to simply end at that.ohio jones wrote:That's not always the case; I find some conservatives quite willing to discuss spiritual things.
I have met plenty who do get well past this, and those are the conversations that stick with me.
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Me too.ohio jones wrote:That's not always the case; I find some conservatives quite willing to discuss spiritual things.
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Is it biblical? Is it Christlike? Is it loving? Is it true? How can I find out?
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I usually ask people how they came to know the Lord. Maybe that's an awkward question? I've had some really good discussions which gave good insight into people's journey. I've found most people seemed glad to answer that.
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That should not be an awkward question, but a joyful testimony!lesterb wrote:I usually ask people how they came to know the Lord. Maybe that's an awkward question? I've had some really good discussions which gave good insight into people's journey. I've found most people seemed glad to answer that.
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That's a very welcoming question for any Christian. It says we have common ground, even if we don't dress the same or have the same cultural background. This thread asked for examples of awkward conversations, but I have had many more gracious conversations with conservative Anabaptists than awkward ones. And these conversations were often very spiritual. They acknowledge us as brethren.lesterb wrote:I usually ask people how they came to know the Lord. Maybe that's an awkward question? I've had some really good discussions which gave good insight into people's journey. I've found most people seemed glad to answer that.
Conversations about relationships and everyday life are also a good way to establish common ground. They acknowledge us as human.
To me, the questions that are awkward are the ones that make us think we don't really belong, that you might not think of us as really Christian, that you might be judging us, that you wonder why we are here.
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I've often used it as an icebreaker of sorts. But I like to get people like that into our home, or visit them. Other than making people feel welcome, I prefer a more private conversation. People like that often get a big crowd around them, which I would find intimidating if I were in their shoes. But in a home everyone can relax. Asking for a person's testimony can get an afternoon off to a great time of comparing notes about the Lord.Bootstrap wrote:That's a very welcoming question for any Christian. It says we have common ground, even if we don't dress the same or have the same cultural background. This thread asked for examples of awkward conversations, but I have had many more gracious conversations with conservative Anabaptists than awkward ones. And these conversations were often very spiritual. They acknowledge us as brethren.lesterb wrote:I usually ask people how they came to know the Lord. Maybe that's an awkward question? I've had some really good discussions which gave good insight into people's journey. I've found most people seemed glad to answer that.
Conversations about relationships and everyday life are also a good way to establish common ground. They acknowledge us as human.
To me, the questions that are awkward are the ones that make us think we don't really belong, that you might not think of us as really Christian, that you might be judging us, that you wonder why we are here.
I don't know if Wade ever looks in on us anymore, but our afternoon with them is one of my highlights in the past several years.
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Perfect.lesterb wrote:But I like to get people like that into our home, or visit them. Other than making people feel welcome, I prefer a more private conversation. People like that often get a big crowd around them, which I would find intimidating if I were in their shoes. But in a home everyone can relax. Asking for a person's testimony can get an afternoon off to a great time of comparing notes about the Lord.
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Wade is a good young man: he and young men like him are a cause for hope in the eyes of this old codger.lesterb wrote: I don't know if Wade ever looks in on us anymore, but our afternoon with them is one of my highlights in the past several years.
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Proverbs 18:2 A fool does not delight in understanding but only in revealing his own mind.
1 Corinthians 3:19 For the wisdom of this world is folly with God
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My last name is actually present in my conference, people from outside assume I am related to one of them. My occupation is as rare as yours is. I have found it is useful to acquire some basic knowledge of agriculture and tractor mechanics. It helps in some circles.ohio jones wrote:That's not always the case; I find some conservatives quite willing to discuss spiritual things. Of course if you're unknown and perhaps visibly not quite in their category there's going to be some background questions as a result of natural curiosity.KingdomBuilder wrote:Most of the questions are centered on the past/ "background"... little is asked about more current spiritual things. Seems like the focus is really on identifying differences in my own and their own experience.
My last name and occupation are rare nonexistent among Plain people. I don't mind if they move on to another subject after asking about those, but an awkward silence or an "I see" (when they obviously don't) isn't helpful.
J.M.
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