Poll: Childhood Trauma

When it just doesn't fit anywhere else.

Check all that generally describe your growing up situation...

1. My parents/guardians weren't perfect, but I couldn't ask for a better home/growing up experience. The home where I grew up was characterized by a lot of love and acceptance.
8
27%
2. There was a lot of anger and "distancing emotions" in the home where I grew up.
3
10%
3. There was verbal and emotional abuse in the home where I grew up.
3
10%
4. There was physical abuse in the home where I grew up.
1
3%
5. There was sexual abuse in the home where I grew up.
1
3%
6. There was no abuse in the home where I grew up.
6
20%
7. Both home and school were emotionally positive environments for me.
5
17%
8. Neither home nor school were emotionally positive environments for me. There was trauma both places.
1
3%
9. Home was a safe place but school was not. I experienced a lot of trauma at school.
1
3%
10. I experienced a lot of trauma at home, but school was a good experience.
1
3%
 
Total votes: 30

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My middle school years were horrible. Lots of pressure to follow the fads, especially clothing. High school went much better for me.
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Szdfan wrote: Fri Mar 15, 2024 1:12 pm Max has previously mentioned that he's in his 90s and experienced the Blitzkrieg.
He has made several age-related statements that are not easily reconciled. But even using the one that results in the youngest age would make him about age 7 at the end of the war, likely able to remember quite a bit from that time period.
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ohio jones wrote: Fri Mar 15, 2024 2:04 pm
Szdfan wrote: Fri Mar 15, 2024 1:12 pm Max has previously mentioned that he's in his 90s and experienced the Blitzkrieg.
He has made several age-related statements that are not easily reconciled. But even using the one that results in the youngest age would make him about age 7 at the end of the war, likely able to remember quite a bit from that time period.
thanks for your note. i had a sense Max was aging faster than the rest of us. but didn’t want to bother investigating.
still. even at my tender age, i find my mind playing tricks on me. i try to be conscious of it.
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steve-in-kville wrote: Fri Mar 15, 2024 2:00 pm My middle school years were horrible. Lots of pressure to follow the fads, especially clothing. High school went much better for me.
middle school is a euphemism for hell.
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Neto wrote: Fri Mar 15, 2024 1:34 pmI was thinking particularly about Teasing, Trauma, Dealing-With-Rejection but it is fine to talk about other traumas.
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Ernie wrote: Fri Mar 15, 2024 5:30 pm
Neto wrote: Fri Mar 15, 2024 1:34 pmAre you only asking about trauma from parental treatment? (i/.e., not from other sources, such as sibling bullying, or traumatic experiences, such as Max already mentioned?)
I was thinking particularly about Teasing, Trauma, Dealing-With-Rejection but it is fine to talk about other traumas.
I took 'trauma' in a very general sense, but just wondered. (fixed it, so people know what I was asking)
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