Signtist wrote:Wade wrote:Haystack wrote:
I also find it strange that women's clothing is to be made, but men's clothing can be store bought.
It seems that there is some men's clothing that we can buy and still be God honouring.
Women's clothing in the world is farther away in finding anything that fits with biblical principles.
And besides we have bought lots of dresses for my wife and daughters - store bought!
The place we buy from has a website but I can't say how much advertising they want so if you want a to know of an excellent place to buy custom cape dresses from, for a great price, and excellent quality - PM me.
What are the biblical principles within which ladies clothing should fit?
When I have talked about this before often others have disagreed but since you asked:
1 Timothy 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
Notice the "In like manner also," as the verses before are talking about holy men therefore there are principles that also apply to the men. Often it seems to cause contention when the focus is so much on the women so I want to make it clear that the men are not "off the hook." However because of males and females having different roles it is also fitting that they dress differently. Maybe we men need to take a serious look at how we are handling ourselves with this? (When I go out just grocery shopping, my wife is all dressed up with head covering and cape dress - I think it really is helpful to her when I put on my plain suit coat on to go with her and therefore I should also do that when she isn't with and I have to go somewhere too.) The broad-falls she bought me for work are really high quality and I really appreciate the pockets are not a thin material so they don't wear-out when I pack tools in them. My wife found a women on-line that shops garage sales in Pennsylvania and then sells these cloths for a few dollars. Great pants for only a few dollars and I have been wearing them for a couple years now.
Modest apparel - to me is simple and plain. I also recall reading I think from the Strong's of this also meaning neat and clean or something close to that.
Shamefacedness and sobriety - gives me the idea of humble clothing that is not designed to draw attention to self or the body.
Broided hair - we also see in scripture that a woman's hair is her glory and so can be used as a snare or distraction - God is an avenger of the defrauded.
Gold - God created us as we are and also allows any deformity or whatever for good. Trying to make are self look better with jewelry seems like a rejection of God and how He made a person - to me anyway... Even a wedding ring is outside submitting and obeying Him if we take the bible literally and real to the Christian's life. (I had to tell the jeweler I was going to throw them in the trash if he didn't take them back as I just couldn't with a clear conscience.)
Pearls and costly array - also fitting with the gold that Christians have a focus of giving and serving - not exalting self but of building others up. (My wife had some really old nice pearl necklaces handing down even - gone.)
Simplicity, Modesty, humility, practical, are some things that seem to fit in with being God honouring. However simplicity, modesty, humility, and practical are things that each of may look at differently. So for me although I would not subscribe to the Old Testament as laws for us to necessarily follow as new creatures in Christ, I would still look to it for some help in looking at how God may view these things.
Isaiah 47 Come down, and sit in the dust, O virgin daughter of Babylon, sit on the ground: there is no throne, O daughter of the Chaldeans: for thou shalt no more be called tender and delicate.
2 Take the millstones, and grind meal: uncover thy locks, make bare the leg, uncover the thigh, pass over the rivers.
3 Thy nakedness shall be uncovered, yea, thy shame shall be seen: I will take vengeance, and I will not meet thee as a man.
Would it be safe to say that God with the example of Adam and Eve hiding themselves, covering with little and then God clothing them more plus from what we read in Isaiah 47 that God shares some of his ideas about being covered up properly? (Not tight fitting clothing - dresses seem to have a good way of distinguishing genders in a world that doesn't want to (even bathroom signs still show woman in dresses.)) It seems to me uncovered legs are a shame and this scripture in Isaiah even calls a woman not covering her hair a shame(I know he is talking about the people of God or church but is he not painting a picture of that more clearly for us saying it this way?) and Paul says the in Church of God the woman do with no other practice or have any contention about it.
There are more scripture saying much more than just these - I have found lots that talk about how God feels about make-up and other things too.
Anyway, flannel shirts... That's where we should be... If they fit with some proper principles then it seems to me it would be just fine to where them. While people may remember what you are wearing if you are dressed as a conservative Mennonite they are more likely to remember your attitude or spirit if you planted seeds in your time with them and this is especially true if your clothing isn't attention drawing.