Josh wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 7:38 pm
Are you divorced and remarried?
He is otherwise he wouldn’t try to defend this so hard. While I don’t agree with his logic on pre conversion sin, I still am semi neutral on the “exception clause”
I don’t see any good coming from someone who regularly lies and refuses dialog outside of his sandbox
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My own personal opinion is that people shouldn't be so quick to get married and also shouldn't be so quick to divorce.
While it might sometimes be necessary, most divorces leave vast wreckage in their wake, both in terms of families, and also in terms of finances. I don't know how many guys I have met who are miserably slaving away long after they should have retired, or moved onto a more rewarding career because they have child support, alimony, and are paying for 2 or 3 households. Or simply because they just blew up their finances in the process of divorce. And some of them are estranged from their own children due to an unnecessarily acrimonious divorce.
Lifelong partnerships are a good thing on a whole lot of levels. Spiritual, social, and financial. But it is the biggest and most consequential decision you will ever make in your life so take your time and really understand who you are and what you want in life before jumping into it.
I don't, however, think it is true that society pushes the myth that there are "good" divorces. Only that we all make mistakes and sometimes it is necessary.
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