You know, Boot, I call my trans friends by their preferred pronouns (some of whom change them on a regular basis), and do my best not to offend them.Bootstrap wrote:Exactly.Neto wrote:I have been uneasy with this terminology from the beginning, and it isn't getting any better, so I'm ready to back off. I just thought that using the terminology that the persons involved are most familiar/comfortable with would help in communicating two things: compassion, and secondly, a recognition that all sin is equal, and that temptation is not sin.
The alternative is to start by saying, "I want you to know that I reject your understanding of who you are and what you feel, and refuse to listen to the words that you choose to describe yourself, so now that we've made that clear, let's talk".
Yet at the end of the day, I think their identity is grounded in delusions and poor mental health. I still listen to what they have to say, but that doesn't mean that their "identity" is healthy or good. Part of them being restored to wholeness is letting go of the identity of "I am a transsexual Christian" or "I am a female Christian who has a biologically male body" and simply embrace "I am a Christian, who has a body and mind with imperfections just like everyone other son and daughter of Adam".