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Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 9:43 am
by mike
MaxPC wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 9:26 am
mike wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 9:17 am
That doesn't mean there isn't behavior that is socially inappropriate or distracting from worship. Let all things be done decently and in order.
Well said, Mike. Which leads to the next question:
Would consuming refreshments be acceptable or unacceptable during a wedding ceremony or funeral service? If not, then where do you think the line is to be drawn between these ceremonies and the Sunday ceremonies?
There is probably a spectrum of behavior ranging from taking a sip of water or or a cough drop and having yourself a private meal during a public meeting.
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 10:20 am
by Grace
mike wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 9:43 am
MaxPC wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 9:26 am
mike wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 9:17 am
That doesn't mean there isn't behavior that is socially inappropriate or distracting from worship. Let all things be done decently and in order.
Well said, Mike. Which leads to the next question:
Would consuming refreshments be acceptable or unacceptable during a wedding ceremony or funeral service? If not, then where do you think the line is to be drawn between these ceremonies and the Sunday ceremonies?
There is probably a spectrum of behavior ranging from taking a sip of water or or a cough drop and having yourself a private meal during a public meeting.
Or a private cud chewing party. Someone chewing gum, like a cow chewing their cud, adding snapping and cracking sounds. So distracting. Another thing that is distracting is an older couple in our church, who packs on the PDA.
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 10:22 am
by steve-in-kville
Grace wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 10:20 am
Another thing that is distracting is an older couple in our church, who packs on the PDA.
Now I have that image in my head
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 11:19 am
by barnhart
We have a break with coffee and snacks after singing and preaching but before Sunday school. Small children are ready for a break from sitting and big people too.
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 12:24 pm
by steve-in-kville
barnhart wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 11:19 am
We have a break with coffee and snacks after singing and preaching but before Sunday school. Small children are ready for a break from sitting and big people too.
I think we have a cafe type thing that serves coffee and pastries once a month, before the Sunday School service.
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 12:33 pm
by Neto
If it's OK with folks to have others drinking coffee in the service, what about an ice cream cone, or a Root Beer float? A can of Coke? A beer?
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 12:54 pm
by QuietlyListening
If it's OK with folks to have others drinking coffee in the service, what about an ice cream cone, or a Root Beer float? A can of Coke? A beer?
Truthfully I think most people see a difference in bringing a beverage in a closed container into a service is very different from bringing and ice cream cone, root beer float or beer? Or any other food item.
But people differ on many issues. I see no problem with a covered beverage but others have an issue. Guess we need to do what we feel is right. I don't think there is really a right or wrong but rather a preference and also your church culture will have a lot to do with it.
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 12:59 pm
by Neto
QuietlyListening wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 12:54 pm
If it's OK with folks to have others drinking coffee in the service, what about an ice cream cone, or a Root Beer float? A can of Coke? A beer?
Truthfully I think most people see a difference in bringing a beverage in a closed container into a service is very different from bringing and ice cream cone, root beer float or beer? Or any other food item.
But people differ on many issues. I see no problem with a covered beverage but others have an issue. Guess we need to do what we feel is right. I don't think there is really a right or wrong but rather a preference and also your church culture will have a lot to do with it.
My (hidden) point was that at one time the first was not acceptable for adults, but now it is. Is the "slippery slope" strewn with empty coffee cups? (I do, however, occasionally need to get up & go out to get a drink of water, or because of a coughing fit. Maybe that is also distracting to others.)
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 1:06 pm
by QuietlyListening
My (hidden) point was that at one time the first was not acceptable for adults, but now it is. Is the "slippery slope" strewn with empty coffee cups? (I do, however, occasionally need to get up & go out to get a drink of water, or because of a coughing fit. Maybe that is also distracting to others.)
If I've read things correctly you and I are about the same age. We or at least I have seen many changes in church culture. Many churches now use overheads for many things, many people use cell phones for their bibles, pews to chairs and I could go on and on. Slippery slope or just change- some changes are better than other but you see the beverage as bad. We don't have empty cups left in our church- people throw them out tho most bring their own. And years ago getting up to get a drink or go to the bathroom was frowned on- at least at the church where I went.
As I said- not sure there is a right or wrong and I have not seen folks bring food/meals/etc into a service yet. Will they eventually? Haven't a clue. But there are so many issues these days that we face- in my opinion- drinks in church are way way down on the list of issues to be concerned about. But as I said, my opinion and many disagree.
Re: Drinking coffee during church service?
Posted: Thu Oct 05, 2023 1:26 pm
by Neto
QuietlyListening wrote: ↑Thu Oct 05, 2023 1:06 pm
My (hidden) point was that at one time the first was not acceptable for adults, but now it is. Is the "slippery slope" strewn with empty coffee cups? (I do, however, occasionally need to get up & go out to get a drink of water, or because of a coughing fit. Maybe that is also distracting to others.)
If I've read things correctly you and I are about the same age. We or at least I have seen many changes in church culture. Many churches now use overheads for many things, many people use cell phones for their bibles, pews to chairs and I could go on and on. Slippery slope or just change- some changes are better than other but you see the beverage as bad. We don't have empty cups left in our church- people throw them out tho most bring their own. And years ago getting up to get a drink or go to the bathroom was frowned on- at least at the church where I went.
As I said- not sure there is a right or wrong and I have not seen folks bring food/meals/etc into a service yet. Will they eventually? Haven't a clue. But there are so many issues these days that we face- in my opinion- drinks in church are way way down on the list of issues to be concerned about. But as I said, my opinion and many disagree.
Lots of disposable coffee cups are left in the meeting area every Sunday at our congregation, and sometimes there are spills.
When I was growing up back in Oklahoma, not many people left the building to use the bathroom, because most people already had in-door bathrooms at home, and didn't like to use the outhouse at church. I guess the thing that bothers me most about the coffee deal is the number of people who hang around the "coffee and cookie bar", both before Sunday School and after. (Our SS class is in the chair and table storage area, which is just off of that snack area, and it's often rather loud out there.)
(By the way, I'll be 68 in a less than a month.)