Wife: Well, our church doesn’t talk TV or sports at church that I am aware of, although I do know a couple things are sneaking at school, and I’m not sure if that’s from Mennonite children or non-Mennonite children. We’ve had some churches like that too, and were annoyed at our first place that so many of them seemed into the Super Bowl.plain wrote: ↑Thu Mar 14, 2024 10:51 amI hope you will be able to reach out more in the future. To waste opportunities doesn't sound good. What situations has that been?Soloist wrote: ↑Thu Mar 14, 2024 9:58 amThere’s a few people who really seem dedicated to reaching out to people, and of course, others not so much, but I do appreciate that about here versus some other Mennonite churches I have seen. I honestly need to do better at reaching out to people, because sometimes I really waste opportunities.
Seems usual in many churches that many doesn't do evangelize, and my experience is that many do not even talk about "spiritual things", but only about tv shows, sports, events etc., even before/after church service.
I felt guilty because the other day, I was filling up gas on the way home from the store, and this man started talking to me first asking about some farm stand north of us, which I had trouble trying to figure out what he was talking about since I’m not from here. Then he started going on about Native American remedies and how red oak sap can cure cancer and everything else, mentioning that he is 106 and was born in 1926 (the math did not add up, and he looked like he was probably in his 60s or 70s), cancer coming from worms in your body, and a bunch of other really odd stuff, and I wasn’t sure if he was serious or just trying to pull one over on me, but I was just nodding and saying interesting, and thinking about how I was going to be late to meet someone who was bringing us food, and not really knowing what to say. I felt really bad afterwards, because I thought that I was being deceptive by just nodding and not questioning anything, and I was trying to figure out how I could have shared the gospel/reached out to him, and I felt like that was a wasted opportunity.
Occasionally, a conversation will start when people realize I’m not Mennonite born, and I’ve never even been to Pennsylvania. Also, sometimes the conversation naturally flows toward spiritual things, but that requires that I’m actually willing to get into a conversation. If I mention that my husband and I both used to be military, I try to add that we’re conscientious objectors now, but I feel like I need to reach out a lot more than I am doing. Just passing out the occasional invite to our church or putting a book in one of those lending library’s seems inadequate, and I need to be a lot more willing to step out of my comfort zone when I’m out and about and also be willing to politely disagree sometimes.