Yes that is what you called it but at the time it seemed like you were fed up-
You did not include Max.
Yes that is what you called it but at the time it seemed like you were fed up-
You trying to tell me the mods regularly put Bootstrap on timeout and justme didn't even know about it?Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 9:36 pmYou do not know they are lies. You assumed that.ken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 9:26 pmThat's why I asked. I thought it seemed like you were suggesting that it was OK for Max to say that because it was a PM.
Nope, it was the first ever PM I got from Max - completely unsolicited.
I shared it because I thought it was relevant to bring more accuracy to the profile you were presenting. Telling the truth about the kind of things a person says about other people (and the lies they tell about other people) isn't a character attack. And if telling the truth about someone makes them look bad, it's generally because they did bad things. If a person does only good things, telling the truth about them won't make them look bad.
When the Pharisees acted pious in public but acted differently in private, Jesus denounced them publicly. Would you call that a character attack trying to make the Pharisees look bad?
For some reason he felt he could reach out to you.
I honestly felt Max was justified in his feelings way back then. Boot can hammer away at times. Max was not on the list of people Just me challenged to not post for 30 days. Perhaps in Max experience he recognizes traits of people using meds (I hear this from others who perceive it) and really, many talk bad here about others. Like I said, I have received apologies via pm from observers sympathizing with treatment of me. I tend to publicly defend others- there can be a mob mentality
Well maybe for his own good at times, he goes through phases of hammering- they should suggest that to some of us when we get our knickers in a knot & hotly pursuit another till they're plum worn out & exasperated Maybe if we can't see we need a break a mod can kindly suggest one for our own (& other's) goodken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:04 pmYou trying to tell me the mods regularly put Bootstrap on timeout and justme didn't even know about it?Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 9:36 pmYou do not know they are lies. You assumed that.ken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 9:26 pm
That's why I asked. I thought it seemed like you were suggesting that it was OK for Max to say that because it was a PM.
Nope, it was the first ever PM I got from Max - completely unsolicited.
I shared it because I thought it was relevant to bring more accuracy to the profile you were presenting. Telling the truth about the kind of things a person says about other people (and the lies they tell about other people) isn't a character attack. And if telling the truth about someone makes them look bad, it's generally because they did bad things. If a person does only good things, telling the truth about them won't make them look bad.
When the Pharisees acted pious in public but acted differently in private, Jesus denounced them publicly. Would you call that a character attack trying to make the Pharisees look bad?
For some reason he felt he could reach out to you.
I honestly felt Max was justified in his feelings way back then. Boot can hammer away at times. Max was not on the list of people Just me challenged to not post for 30 days. Perhaps in Max experience he recognizes traits of people using meds (I hear this from others who perceive it) and really, many talk bad here about others. Like I said, I have received apologies via pm from observers sympathizing with treatment of me. I tend to publicly defend others- there can be a mob mentality
It takes two, to have a hot pursuit. Speaking of non-resistance. If you get tired of being hotly pursued or hotly pursuing, the solution is the same: just stop. It generally doesn’t take a signed armistice by both parties at all. All it takes is one side to quit, to shut up, and it is over. And that is something anyone can do at anytime.Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:08 pmWell maybe for his own good at times, he goes through phases of hammering- they should suggest that to some of us when we get our knickers in a knot & hotly pursuit another till they're plum worn out & exasperated Maybe if we can't see we need a break a mod can kindly suggest one for our own (& other's) goodken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:04 pmYou trying to tell me the mods regularly put Bootstrap on timeout and justme didn't even know about it?Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 9:36 pm
You do not know they are lies. You assumed that.
For some reason he felt he could reach out to you.
I honestly felt Max was justified in his feelings way back then. Boot can hammer away at times. Max was not on the list of people Just me challenged to not post for 30 days. Perhaps in Max experience he recognizes traits of people using meds (I hear this from others who perceive it) and really, many talk bad here about others. Like I said, I have received apologies via pm from observers sympathizing with treatment of me. I tend to publicly defend others- there can be a mob mentality
Seriously, Valerie.Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:08 pmWell maybe for his own good at times, he goes through phases of hammering- they should suggest that to some of us when we get our knickers in a knot & hotly pursuit another till they're plum worn out & exasperated Maybe if we can't see we need a break a mod can kindly suggest one for our own (& other's) goodken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:04 pmYou trying to tell me the mods regularly put Bootstrap on timeout and justme didn't even know about it?Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 9:36 pm
You do not know they are lies. You assumed that.
For some reason he felt he could reach out to you.
I honestly felt Max was justified in his feelings way back then. Boot can hammer away at times. Max was not on the list of people Just me challenged to not post for 30 days. Perhaps in Max experience he recognizes traits of people using meds (I hear this from others who perceive it) and really, many talk bad here about others. Like I said, I have received apologies via pm from observers sympathizing with treatment of me. I tend to publicly defend others- there can be a mob mentality
Which is exactly why Max chose the foe option to disengage. And, my friend who invited me here long ago just quit. Those are options.RZehr wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:17 pmIt takes two, to have a hot pursuit. Speaking of non-resistance. If you get tired of being hotly pursued or hotly pursuing, the solution is the same: just stop. It generally doesn’t take a signed armistice by both parties at all. All it takes is one side to quit, to shut up, and it is over. And that is something anyone can do at anytime.Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:08 pmWell maybe for his own good at times, he goes through phases of hammering- they should suggest that to some of us when we get our knickers in a knot & hotly pursuit another till they're plum worn out & exasperated Maybe if we can't see we need a break a mod can kindly suggest one for our own (& other's) goodken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:04 pm
You trying to tell me the mods regularly put Bootstrap on timeout and justme didn't even know about it?
Who knows or cares at this point. Bible warns of useless wranglings so, let's not. Press on, this is futuleken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:18 pmSeriously, Valerie.Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:08 pmWell maybe for his own good at times, he goes through phases of hammering- they should suggest that to some of us when we get our knickers in a knot & hotly pursuit another till they're plum worn out & exasperated Maybe if we can't see we need a break a mod can kindly suggest one for our own (& other's) goodken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:04 pm
You trying to tell me the mods regularly put Bootstrap on timeout and justme didn't even know about it?
You're the person saying maybe Max wasn't lying when he made that claim. Either Max was lying or, somehow, a user regularly got suspended and justme didn't know anything about it. Do you really, honestly, think that justme wouldn't have known if someone like Bootstrap was regularly suspended?
I can play putt putt provided you’ll give me a handicap of 1 per hole or so. If we ever all find ourselves in the same place, I hope we can meet at the nearest batting cages/mini golf/go kart track…ken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 9:15 pmI didn't realize they were golfers. Who asked them to quit?
Look, you are the one that brought this up. You are the one who is suggesting that maybe Bootstrap was regularly suspended by the moderators, making that claim after justme said that such a claim would be incorrect.Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:22 pmWho knows or cares at this point. Bible warns of useless wranglings so, let's not. Press on, this is futuleken_sylvania wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:18 pmSeriously, Valerie.Valerie wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2024 10:08 pm
Well maybe for his own good at times, he goes through phases of hammering- they should suggest that to some of us when we get our knickers in a knot & hotly pursuit another till they're plum worn out & exasperated Maybe if we can't see we need a break a mod can kindly suggest one for our own (& other's) good
You're the person saying maybe Max wasn't lying when he made that claim. Either Max was lying or, somehow, a user regularly got suspended and justme didn't know anything about it. Do you really, honestly, think that justme wouldn't have known if someone like Bootstrap was regularly suspended?