GaryK wrote: .. I personally know numerous women who there husbands have either abandoned them or divorced them and they remained faithful to their marriage and celibate.
So I wouldn't say marital faithfulness is impossible.
men do this, also.
our contemporary world actually makes this choice logistically much easier today than in history.
in earlier times, life was far more difficult, fewer options, esp for women, but also for men.
so, to reject faithfulness and celibacy today really does represent personal desire more than it did in prior times. i.e., our will, not caring so much about God's Will.
having said that, not all who remain alone and celibate today are doing so as a commitment to God's Will. today, i read, different folks/young people are choosing single life out of greed or fear or convenience.
this is not the same as intentional commitment to God-at-center.
Jesus spoke about the better way being to not marry, but to follow Him.
so, when a marriage
seems to fail .. that door Jesus offered, can reopen!
"seems to fail," are important words.
as Wade was speaking to, above, things may appear hopeless (in all human reasoning) .. but this has nothing to do with allowing for God's Will and God's Time. this requires faith and obedience.
it's breath-taking how radically things can change - when it's God's Will to change them!
making broad statements like, "this will never happen," removes God's Will, the Holy Spirit, from the mix .. which is unwise.
it's not even possible.
imho, humans should not have use of words like "never." we speak of which we know nothing.
lastly, i do not see CM's making demands on anyone to follow their beliefs, align with their church membership rules. this is important. it's choice.
it's a choice i would like to see made more available in the world.
no one has to be conservative Anabaptist to honor these views on marriage-divorce-remarriage.
Truth cannot be held captive! it's available to each one, through Jesus Christ.
i believe much misery could be avoided if these understandings were known from young, rather than only learned post-disaster. many do not learn, even then.
they just hurt and hurt, never grasping why.
the world tells them they are right, they are justified, but, they are puzzled when hurt remains.