What about the people that Christ is speaking to in these passages?
He is addressing the proud.
I see this very similar to the way he address the Scribes and Pharisees about the woman caught in
adultery. He told them:
“Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.”
Did Christ want them to stone her? Of course not, that would be inconsistent with God's design. It was man that initiated sin and murder - not God!
So when he says,
"Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
notice the similarity of addressing the
proud? Was He saying to go and even divorce? Of course not, that would be inconsistent with God's design and what He just referred to from the beginning. It was man that initiated divorce - not God!
I would be hard pressed to find a divorced person that could say that they were honestly %100 faithful with their eyes while married and is
worthy of casting the first stone at his spouse.
Can you say you have been??????????
But one could argue that because they have repented that they are better than his spouse and therefore fit for the exception...
Well, maybe that mindset didn't consider giving there spouse time to repent as they did for me or you and could have likely divorced me or you the instant I or you sinned as well.
Using time to justify oneself as worthy to cast the stone is weaker than trying to convince me about millions of years allowing for evidence of anything.
What makes anyone think they deserve that mercy of time that they could have time to repent? Yet that is what God has giving to each of us...
And even if we have repented do we understand the unmerited gift of that forgiveness that we have received? Humbling...
And how could someone even claim that forgiveness while not allowing the time for their spouse the opportunity to seek the Lord as we were once lost too?
Do we have any idea of how unworthy we are and what He has done for us?
Don't we want to share that with others?
Especially share that with loved ones that are lost?
"For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." - Romans 5:7-8
Repent while their is time...
Follow Him.