Josh wrote:This may be a bit of a southerner vs northerner difference.
Here in the north, we just don't think about the Civil War very often.
Occasionally we drive by someone in, say, Kansas or California who has a Confederate flag in their yard, look at each other, shake our heads, and mutter something about haven't they heard which side won the war.
What is surprising about this is that measures of prejudice often are worse in the north than in the south. I would hazard that the legacy of slavery has a lot less impact today than one might think.
Canada has trouble with racism and prejudice too, despite not having a history of slavery.
i have not visited this thread before, i noticed AA posted, i read what AA posts.
Josh’s post caught my eye.
It reminds me of my father’s words.
i was probably 10-11. early 1960’s. we rarely traveled, but once drove through some southern states one summer. we in the back seat were “all eyes” for everything we could see.
i was puzzled about seeing Confederate flags.
in my area, public schools were “culturally mixed” before fancy labels were assigned, Josh’s words definitely resonate. we young ones did not think about the Civil War.
so. those flags? why? what?
i asked my father, “what is this about? the war is long over, they lost, move on?”
he thought about my question. my parents did not use many words, ever. his explanation was short, but (i believe) sufficient.
he said, something like, “the north can forget, because the north won.”
in my life, this has been valuable insight to human nature.
it is harder to lose. it is important for winners to be gracious. to be patient. to be tolerant.
in cases of civil wars, not just in the U.S., it’s a matter of many close ones, families and friends, fighting one another. this is extra-painful. so. by way of my father’s insights, i’m not dogmatic about differences in southern-northern views, i accept differences and try to respect them.
i’m not particularly concerned with flags or statues. they exist, they serve purposes.
if there is any flag i’d like to see eliminated, it would be the rainbow flag, which seems to epitomize depravity and pride, a direct affront to God, while not representing any state or country, at all.
i am bothered at the attraction it has for children, not unlike the complaint some had about the camel logo used on cigarettes.
many who loathe the Confederate flag worship, protect, fly, tolerate, the rainbow flag.
i have not petitioned for removal or anything close - of either or any flag or statue, or cigarette ads.
i appreciate the freedom to have my opinions, and realize others have different opinions.
this used to be an important concept taught and valued in public school education. it was commonly accepted.